• Husband wants me to put on minibikini top with tiny c string in his friend's pool party?

    We will go to his friend's pool party today and he insists that i wear the mini bikini top that is only bit bigger than my nipples and tiny c string that i have to shave because it can barely cover my vagina area. There will be about 10 guys and i am one of the two females. I asked him why I need to dress like... show more
    We will go to his friend's pool party today and he insists that i wear the mini bikini top that is only bit bigger than my nipples and tiny c string that i have to shave because it can barely cover my vagina area. There will be about 10 guys and i am one of the two females. I asked him why I need to dress like that and he said another girl will do the same too. my husband always tell me about his fantasy of seeing me naked in front of guys and creampied by a group of men. He will masturbate and fantasize about me being impregnanted by one of those guys without knowing who actually impregnates me. Will this pool party turns into the creampie reality? I don't know why but i think it is hot and kinda expect this will happen today like these guys just use me as a tool for sex and belittle me in front of my husband, and my husband does know that i am on ovulation now. Should I tell him about my feeling?
    29 answers · 2 days ago
  • Would you be attracted to your spouse if they got fat?

    To put it bluntly, would you still love them if they gained a substantial amount of weight and stopped trying to look good for you? How would that make you feel?
    To put it bluntly, would you still love them if they gained a substantial amount of weight and stopped trying to look good for you? How would that make you feel?
    23 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Wife sleeps in another room when we have had a fight , isn't that childish?

    She is so sensitive that after we have had an argument , she wouldn't talk for a while and then would spend the night in another room , away from me . Whereas I think , the best way to resolve arguments is by cuddling ( make up sex would be even better ) but how would that be possible if she avoids me by... show more
    She is so sensitive that after we have had an argument , she wouldn't talk for a while and then would spend the night in another room , away from me . Whereas I think , the best way to resolve arguments is by cuddling ( make up sex would be even better ) but how would that be possible if she avoids me by sleeping away . Things go back to normal the next morning because she says , having her space , calms her down , but this behaviour is hurtful to me because this way we are spending a substantial number of nights apart ( atleast once a week ) . I want her to stop doing this altogether, what do you suggest
    48 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do you and your husband fight? Is emotional and verbal abuse normal?

    My husband is controlling and abusive, but afterwards he tells me all marriages are like that. This last time he called me every insult he could think of, he told our kids we were going to live in separate houses because of how bad Mommy is (and listed several horrible reasons all not true). He brought up... show more
    My husband is controlling and abusive, but afterwards he tells me all marriages are like that. This last time he called me every insult he could think of, he told our kids we were going to live in separate houses because of how bad Mommy is (and listed several horrible reasons all not true). He brought up pictures on his phone of attractive women and said "this is what a beautiful woman looks like - you are so ugly". He drove my car so fast and recklessly on the way home that today it wouldn't start. He got all dressed up and left the house for over 4 hours to make me think he was going out to find someone else. Then after he does all that he says "I told our son I was leaving and he is crying and wants me to stay, what are we going to do" and he wants to make up. Is this normal by any means? We have been married 15 years and I have very little emotions left inside.
    17 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Do husbands mainly pay the mortgage? I grew up with my dad paying the mortgage and my mom paying other bills and he was fine with it, howevr?

    My husband wants my whole check for the mortgage to help him pay along with me paying the light billmy car payment, phone,He has anger issues and i finally landed a steady job after 17 mnths since we had our son and I was furloughed until Dec. I told him the day i was furloughed not to take it out on me and he said... show more
    My husband wants my whole check for the mortgage to help him pay along with me paying the light billmy car payment, phone,He has anger issues and i finally landed a steady job after 17 mnths since we had our son and I was furloughed until Dec. I told him the day i was furloughed not to take it out on me and he said he wasnt but i knew that was a lie. I have two more checks coming, one this week and another in two weeks. He said he needs my whole check(s) leaving me without any money for me to go get this tooth worked on that has been hurting me and chipped for over a year, also I need new contacts and glassess. My 17 month old broke my glasses and my contacts have expired so i can't see worth crap. All he cares about is me giving him my checks for mortgage. He makes a lot more than me, he's a radiologst tech and I'm a headstart teacher assistant who's now furloughed. He said my job is a scam and i haven't had a real job since before our son was born. My dad said he always felt good as a man even now saying that he pays the mortgage for the family (now just him and my mom) while my mom pays other bills and always contributes to making sure the house is clean and decorated. My husband wont let me decorate w/o his permission so he puts up tacky curtains and its embarrassing inviting ppl over. My friend's an interior designer and she came to see our house and she said the curtains have got to go. I told her i know that. Hes a know it all and tired of running in circles w/ him.
    17 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Is it normal to avoid watching movies with female nudity?

    I don’t appreciate my husband looking at exposed attractive women.
    I don’t appreciate my husband looking at exposed attractive women.
    13 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Husband keeps his interaction with his ex wife secret.?

    Best answer: Well as a wife, I see why you would feel a little uneasy about your husband taking care of the needs of his EX WIFE. Them having history together and also kids with her, will make it kind of hard to neglect his ex wife. In his mind he could be thinking that if he neglects his ex wife needs then he will also be... show more
    Best answer: Well as a wife, I see why you would feel a little uneasy about your husband taking care of the needs of his EX WIFE. Them having history together and also kids with her, will make it kind of hard to neglect his ex wife. In his mind he could be thinking that if he neglects his ex wife needs then he will also be neglecting his kids. He still wants to show them it's still a happy union between him and their mother. Respect is important in a marriage, so him not telling you he's doing these things, is showing lack of respect and poor communication skills if you ask me. Obviously he still cares for his ex wife and want to make sure she's OK, I can relate to that part a little, it would be totally different if him and his ex wife didnt have any kids together. So no matter what he's going to be in his ex wife life forever. So it's best for you to tell him how you truly feel, don't let this eat you up inside. You deserve an explanation, so come to him as a wife.

    Goodluck
    13 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Husband won't let go of his jealousy and it's ruining our marriage?

    He has made up this idea in his head that I have got feelings for a friend of mine which is totally irrational of him to think . I have tried explaining him that there was never a romantic relationship between me and my friend and it isn't like that even now , he seems to trust me for w while but then goes back... show more
    He has made up this idea in his head that I have got feelings for a friend of mine which is totally irrational of him to think . I have tried explaining him that there was never a romantic relationship between me and my friend and it isn't like that even now , he seems to trust me for w while but then goes back to his usual suspecting ways . Like he was away for a week for work and when he came back the first thing he said to me was , if I had gone out with my friend . I have stopped mentioning my friend in our conversations at all and I haven't gone out with him in a very long time . Still my husband taunts me every now and then by mentioning him and being suspicious . How should i erase this doubt from his mind completely because it feels so bad when he does this to me
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why is it that when a couple both work, the man STILL expects his woman do to all the housework?

    Best answer: My husband and I have always shared the responsibility of the home, kids, etc mostly equally. Even at periods where I did stay home (aka extended maternity leaves). I don't live there by myself. I didn't have the kids by myself. I don't wear his clothes. We both eat at the house. There's certain... show more
    Best answer: My husband and I have always shared the responsibility of the home, kids, etc mostly equally. Even at periods where I did stay home (aka extended maternity leaves).

    I don't live there by myself.
    I didn't have the kids by myself.
    I don't wear his clothes.
    We both eat at the house.

    There's certain chores we negotiate. He does most of the cooking. We both do laundry. I do most of the cleaning.

    I give him a break or free pass at times that he works a lot more hours and has a much more demanding profession than I do. I fix computers and networks for a living, he fixes/heals people. However, he could work 14 hours and be on his feet for most of it and still come home and want to help the kids with bath time, homework and give me a break from them.

    If your description is your situation... you picked poorly when picking a mate.
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do I need to get a dna test?

    My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We've been trying to conceive for years before, but the doctor said that I have a low sperm count and that it would be unlikely for me to get her pregnant. I gave up trying to be honest, but recently, my wife got pregnant and I'm extremely anxious. I think that... show more
    My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We've been trying to conceive for years before, but the doctor said that I have a low sperm count and that it would be unlikely for me to get her pregnant. I gave up trying to be honest, but recently, my wife got pregnant and I'm extremely anxious. I think that baby might not be mine. I love my wife so much, but I can't forgive her if she cheated. I need to find out.
    11 answers · 11 hours ago
  • Should husband and wife both earn money?

    45 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I marry him?

    I live and was born in the USA and I only speak English. My moms been wanting me to get married to someone from her country (Egypt) and I've never felt ready until now. I'm 29 and I want babies. There's someone that I really like who wants to marry me and speaks good English, the idea of not being with... show more
    I live and was born in the USA and I only speak English. My moms been wanting me to get married to someone from her country (Egypt) and I've never felt ready until now. I'm 29 and I want babies. There's someone that I really like who wants to marry me and speaks good English, the idea of not being with him makes me cry at night but the idea of leaving the usa to live in such a tatty country scares me to death. Also he's very young so we won't have our own place we'll have to live with his parents,his sisters (who hate me), his brother who fancies me,his other brother and his wife.The flat they live in is very tatty and practically falling down. They're not poor but every home in Egypt it tatty. I've stayed at their place for 1 night and hated it, they don't have AC and I got really sick at night. Also it worrys be being married in a country where women don't really have any rights, marital rape is legal and domestic violence isn't taken seriously, what if things go wrong and I'm not allowed to leave the country since I'm married to a resident?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • How is this possible ?

    My wife told me that she's pregnant she's on birth control she has an IUD in. We've been having lots of sex lately. We've been married 2 months. How is it possible she's pregnant ?
    My wife told me that she's pregnant she's on birth control she has an IUD in. We've been having lots of sex lately. We've been married 2 months. How is it possible she's pregnant ?
    9 answers · 4 hours ago
  • What is wrong with my wife?

    She bitches about everything, no matter what. I went shopping and came home and left the chicken out for an hour before I put it away, she told me that's gross I told her it'll be fine there's the 4 hour rule. I went to culinary school I know this. Then she went on to tell me about other times i've... show more
    She bitches about everything, no matter what. I went shopping and came home and left the chicken out for an hour before I put it away, she told me that's gross I told her it'll be fine there's the 4 hour rule. I went to culinary school I know this. Then she went on to tell me about other times i've done this she was bringing up incidents 2 years ago about how I left blood on the counter from meat, I also apparently did it before about 6 months ago. Then she told me the house is a mess and I should get rid of my cats that i've had for 5 years. Then she told me I use to care about dirty counters now I don't clean them the way I use to. I'm at a complete dumbfounded loss right now, I felt like I was in the twilight zone. All this triggered by me not putting the chicken in the fridge right away when I came home.
    50 answers · 5 days ago
  • Wife wants to cut her hair short but I don't want her to?

    She has had very long hair from the start of our relationship and by very long I mean , till below her waist and I absolutely love them . Her long hair make her look so pretty and now she wants to get rid of them , like cut them to a length slightly below the shoulders because it's getting increasingly... show more
    She has had very long hair from the start of our relationship and by very long I mean , till below her waist and I absolutely love them . Her long hair make her look so pretty and now she wants to get rid of them , like cut them to a length slightly below the shoulders because it's getting increasingly difficult for her to maintain and she is bored of the length . I don't want that to happen , I know I sound superficial but physical attraction is an important component in a relationship and her hair make her very attractive. So , how should I stop her from cutting them
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • If someone dies while you are married to them, do you still need to file for divorce?

    My boyfriend was married to his wife who lived in another state and he has been trying to get a divorce but she did not want one. About a year ago, she ended up passing away from a drug overdose and he feels that he does not need to do anything to end this. Do you still need to get an divorce or are you just... show more
    My boyfriend was married to his wife who lived in another state and he has been trying to get a divorce but she did not want one. About a year ago, she ended up passing away from a drug overdose and he feels that he does not need to do anything to end this. Do you still need to get an divorce or are you just considered a widow now and will any of her financial burdens come back on him?
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • How often do you and your spouse argue?

    Once a week? Once a month? Daily? Every other day? How often do you and your spouse argue?
    Once a week? Once a month? Daily? Every other day? How often do you and your spouse argue?
    9 answers · 11 hours ago