• Am I missing out?

    So I m a 9th grade girl and I have no friends what so ever. Nobody talks to me and I m basically ignored. Whenever I come home I just do homework exercise and go to sleep. Nobody texts or calls me but my family. I ve never gone to a sleepover or a party since 3rd grade. I m just afraid of talking and I can t talk... show more
    So I m a 9th grade girl and I have no friends what so ever. Nobody talks to me and I m basically ignored. Whenever I come home I just do homework exercise and go to sleep. Nobody texts or calls me but my family. I ve never gone to a sleepover or a party since 3rd grade. I m just afraid of talking and I can t talk in public because I have selective mutism and people think I m weird. I feel like I m missing out out because everyone is getting boyfriends and hanging out and having fun. And I m just pent up in my room on the weekends reading or sleeping. I m tired of it. I m tired of feeling insignificant. I ve tried to make friends I just don t know how to conversate. I m tired of eating lunch in the bathroom. I m not living the life I want. I want to die I feel so worthless at times. Like at PE people always give me mean looks because i just stand against the wall. Today I skipped PE and am sitting in the bathroom crying. I don t know what to do. I just want one friend!!!! That s all I ask for. What s the point. What do I do
    38 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you make friends easily?

    Am I your friend?
    Am I your friend?
    169 answers · 5 days ago
  • Best friend saw my penis, help!?

    Me and my best friend (girl) have been friends since we were 2. Now we’re both 13. So anyway we live in a rural town so when we hang out with each other it is usually outdoors. We were coming back from swimming in the large lake outside our town and we had to walk through the forest. As a result a branch got... show more
    Me and my best friend (girl) have been friends since we were 2. Now we’re both 13. So anyway we live in a rural town so when we hang out with each other it is usually outdoors. We were coming back from swimming in the large lake outside our town and we had to walk through the forest. As a result a branch got snagged in my oversized swimming shorts and pulled them of. I was kind of embarrassed but I really didn’t care that she saw my penis even though it was erect and we just laughed it of. I assumed everything was okay until later that day when she texted me saying she had masturbated to the image of my dick. I am pretty uncomfortable because I don’t like her that way. What should I do?
    7 answers · 2 hours ago
  • How did you revenge on your bullies?

    Best answer: I understand your anger and your desire to get even with those that wronged you. I was bullied relentlessly all my life, and as such I carry the scars. It changes who you are and it pretty much destroys you as a person. That being said, there comes a point in your life where you have to grow up and move on. ... show more
    Best answer: I understand your anger and your desire to get even with those that wronged you. I was bullied relentlessly all my life, and as such I carry the scars. It changes who you are and it pretty much destroys you as a person.

    That being said, there comes a point in your life where you have to grow up and move on. You can let what others have done to you in the past make you a victim or you can rise above it. If you want to take up self-defense so that you are able to protect yourself from any sort of future attack - go for it. But coming up with a plan to exact revenge on people who wronged you years back simply reflects on your own character deficits. You are literally still being held hostage by their words and actions if you live like that.

    The only opinions that should matter to you in life are those of the people who are closest to you and know you best. Everyone else is a random. So let these bullies of the past be randoms as well. Chances are their lives are no better than yours and quite possibly worse.
    6 answers · 5 hours ago
  • My friends are no longer my friends?

    They are bullies :(
    They are bullies :(
    5 answers · 2 hours ago
  • How can I feel inspired?

    I'm a 20 year old guy. I feel very uninspired and bored. I work at a grocery store, which my parents drive me to and back home. I make no money hardly. I wasn't a good student no matter how hard I worked, so after I finished high school I decided I wanted to work. I can't afford a car. Also, I have no... show more
    I'm a 20 year old guy. I feel very uninspired and bored. I work at a grocery store, which my parents drive me to and back home. I make no money hardly. I wasn't a good student no matter how hard I worked, so after I finished high school I decided I wanted to work. I can't afford a car. Also, I have no friends. I don't want to ask girls out because I have no car. Any ideas? I'm starting to have a bad attitude toward work and I feel like just laying in my bed. I have nothing to look forward to and I'm sick of it. I feel like I work for nothing.
    6 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Am I weird?

    Best answer: It sounds like you live your life completely by fear, and the more you live that way, you will continue to miss out on opportunities and relationships. If you have social anxiety and if you're quiet most of the time, then people will believe you don't want to be bothered or that you won't contribute... show more
    Best answer: It sounds like you live your life completely by fear, and the more you live that way, you will continue to miss out on opportunities and relationships.

    If you have social anxiety and if you're quiet most of the time, then people will believe you don't want to be bothered or that you won't contribute much to a relationship or when socializing. I believe you are very desirable to a lot of people, but you appear as though you're anti-social and that will have people misunderstanding you. I know social anxiety sucks and it's really tricky to getting over it, but you have to sit yourself down and ask what is it you're so terrified of? Do you feel like you sound weird if you speak? Do you think you look funny? Do you stutter? Are you unable to hold eye contact? Sort out the possibilities. Perhaps go see a doctor about it.

    Not having a boyfriend is not bad at all. You don't have to have one, and having one doesn't necessarily make you better. I honestly think girls should wait a lot longer to be dating because girls your age and younger are way more likely to be hurt, used, and are very naïve to fall for a lot of things. Boys your age are not looking to love a girl; they're looking to make out or have sex with her and then brag about it with their buddies. So, you not dating is probably safest for you, especially when your self-esteem is way too fragile. You wouldn't have a backbone strong enough to defend yourself and know how to read a person right. You're only sixteen. You have your whole life to find love.

    Take a selfie then. What's stopping you? Not that they're important. This is perhaps the first step in getting to know you. Start a diary through Microsoft Word Office or whatever program you have related to it. Post your pictures on there and just start writing about yourself, how your day went, who or what made you feel a certain way, etc. I've been writing about my life since I was 16 (31 years old now). I have documents and documents about each chapter of my life and have gone back to see how immature I was, but how far I've come. Record videos of yourself. It's going to be painful to look back on. I remember doing that for myself and I hated how my lips moved or I didn't realize how bigger I was. But I got to know myself.

    If social media gives you anxiety, don't have one. Simple as that. You're likely a lot safer from saying something stupid and then posting it for all to see. Plus your life is more private. Things like photos and drama you put on social media run the risk of remaining on the internet forever. People still don't realize that even today.

    How are younger people than you more successful? Are they running officers? Businesses of their own? Have lots of money they generated? They are still very much depended on an adult. Instead of comparing yourself to people, you should focus more on yourself, like hobbies, or what you want to do with your life.

    You've never or smoke or done alcohol? Consider yourself a SMART person. I don't get people who even choose to smoke for the first time/. I mean, why? What good enough reason is there to destroy the only body you have? Your mom is wrong. I often believe teenage years are a bit overrated. That isn't the time to go out and party and be wild because at those ages you're most vulnerable and extremely immature.

    Follow your dreams. If you want to be an actress, then study it, do research on it. Join clubs or organizations at school or in your city that cater that field. You don't have to look a certain way to be an actress. You're fat and ugly, you say? If you're overweight, do something about it. It won't go away unless you eat right and exercise. But honestly, even if you're overweight, your constant negativity about yourself is so exhausting. it is no wonder you feel the way you do. You are what you believe. You need to start thinking better of yourself.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • People at school are making fun of my last name "porn"?

    I'm Thai, and some Thais have the word "porn" in their last name. For us, it means a blessing, but of course, not in English. My last name is "Wanthaporn." And it sounds exactly like, "Want the porn." I am extremely embarrassed by it. Everyone in class laughs when they hear it. And... show more
    I'm Thai, and some Thais have the word "porn" in their last name. For us, it means a blessing, but of course, not in English. My last name is "Wanthaporn." And it sounds exactly like, "Want the porn." I am extremely embarrassed by it. Everyone in class laughs when they hear it. And it's even worse when we're having a ceremony or when they call my name on the school intercom. Some people even only call me that and not my first name to make fun of me. I'm a girl.
    11 answers · 21 hours ago
  • Is this a good move for me? My "friends' are obsessed with grades and GPA?

    We all sit at lunch together. Me, and about 6 other friends. Theyre cool people, but the thing is, I started realizing at lunch all we talk about is grades. Who got the highest grade on an algebra test, who needs the questions for a calculus test, who has the highest GPA, who's PSAT score is what. Today, they... show more
    We all sit at lunch together. Me, and about 6 other friends. Theyre cool people, but the thing is, I started realizing at lunch all we talk about is grades. Who got the highest grade on an algebra test, who needs the questions for a calculus test, who has the highest GPA, who's PSAT score is what. Today, they started bullying up on me. We're sophomores and I got a secretly got an 1130 on my PSAT. I've been lying saying I got a 1250 just so they wouldn't bombard me with questions like "you're so dumb" "wow how" and even though I said I got a 1250 they still do."I got a 1490 you're so dumb wow idiot" it's just so annoying. I don't want to spend my relaxing period (lunch) like this all the time. I get that school is important and grades are, and I try my best. I don't have all A's but I have had a majority of A's in my classes (all honors/AP) since 9th grade. My GPA is about a 4.3 when my maximum is a 4.5 if I got all A's. Yet because of my GPA I'm labeled as stupid I'm sorry for ranting. Point is, I'm planning on going to a new table. I can't handle their constant obsessions with numbers, it constantly drives me insane. I want to sit at a new table to 1. relieve my stress on grades/GPA/college, which is all we talk about 2. find positive people to improve my outlook on life 3. find new friends &get out of this friend group that i'm stuck in. I've joined the highschool band this year and am trying to make new friends in it. Is this a good move for me? What else should I do?
    15 answers · 4 days ago
  • My “friend” says males cannot like pink because “it’s meant for girls”?

    I don’t want to be her friend anymore because she’s told me she’s homophobic before, and I’m like gay :’), and she believes that girls need to like “girl colours” and boys need to like “boy colours.” Lmao i’m not v smart and I need a nice response to what she says. help a dude out lmao.
    I don’t want to be her friend anymore because she’s told me she’s homophobic before, and I’m like gay :’), and she believes that girls need to like “girl colours” and boys need to like “boy colours.” Lmao i’m not v smart and I need a nice response to what she says. help a dude out lmao.
    7 answers · 9 hours ago
  • How do i get out of a spanking?

    So today I yelled at my mom and accidentally called her a *****. So she called my dad who had work at his law firm to finish so he said when he got home he was going to spank me! So like what do I tell him tp get out of it because I mean I am 12 and lime told old for it plus I am smaller and skinnier than most of... show more
    So today I yelled at my mom and accidentally called her a *****. So she called my dad who had work at his law firm to finish so he said when he got home he was going to spank me! So like what do I tell him tp get out of it because I mean I am 12 and lime told old for it plus I am smaller and skinnier than most of my friends and classmates and he spanks me harder now that i am 12 and not like 7 so what do I do or say
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • What is a “cute and annoying” nickname for the name Anthony?

    I have a co-worker who has given my other coworkers and I nicknames. He has given us nicknames like kariboo kariwheree, Sarah beara and stuff like that. We want to give him an annoying cute nickname for him so possibly he’ll stop. Can anyone think of any?
    I have a co-worker who has given my other coworkers and I nicknames. He has given us nicknames like kariboo kariwheree, Sarah beara and stuff like that. We want to give him an annoying cute nickname for him so possibly he’ll stop. Can anyone think of any?
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • My friend keeps hitting me?

    My friend keeps hitting me it’s gotten really bad I’ve had black eyes a broken nose and really badly swollen face I don’t know what to do they say there sorry but then it happens again I’m fed up with making excuses for my face
    My friend keeps hitting me it’s gotten really bad I’ve had black eyes a broken nose and really badly swollen face I don’t know what to do they say there sorry but then it happens again I’m fed up with making excuses for my face
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can antisocial people make friends?

    37 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I give up trying to socialize and become a recluse no one responds to my messages not even thumbs up?

    I'm always sending family and friends stuff on facebook messenger but get nothing in return. Not even thumbs up. Should I delete facebook and give up trying to communicate with people? I get no feedback. I'm ignored and I've never done anything to be be treated like this. Should I just give up? No one... show more
    I'm always sending family and friends stuff on facebook messenger but get nothing in return. Not even thumbs up. Should I delete facebook and give up trying to communicate with people? I get no feedback. I'm ignored and I've never done anything to be be treated like this. Should I just give up? No one talks to me despite my efforts to communicate.
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Should I buy my depressed friend airline tickets?

    So here's the thing, he is very depressed to the point he was admitted to a mental hospital. I am one of he's close friends. I was thinking this Christmas I would get him airline tickets to visit me (we don't live in the same city) but problem is he has a crush on me and I only like him as a friend. I... show more
    So here's the thing, he is very depressed to the point he was admitted to a mental hospital. I am one of he's close friends. I was thinking this Christmas I would get him airline tickets to visit me (we don't live in the same city) but problem is he has a crush on me and I only like him as a friend. I don't want him to leave more heartbroken then before. But I do know visiting me will cheer him up. What to do??
    33 answers · 5 days ago
  • No one got me anything on my birthday?

    Best answer: I'm sorry. ((hugs)). Happy birthday from a stranger who also had a sucky 16th birthday! Take yourself out to the holiday lights and musical performances this next week and instead of buying gifts for other people, treat yourself! If there is something you have always wanted to do, such as go to see the holiday... show more
    Best answer: I'm sorry. ((hugs)). Happy birthday from a stranger who also had a sucky 16th birthday! Take yourself out to the holiday lights and musical performances this next week and instead of buying gifts for other people, treat yourself! If there is something you have always wanted to do, such as go to see the holiday parade or a special concert, consider taking one friend but taking yourself for the fun of it! Also take yourself to a place like Applebees or Chilis (I live in California and I like those places the best), order yourself a burger and mention it was your birthday and have the people working there give you the free piece of fudge cake and sing just for you. Next year on my birthday I am going to take advantage of that! And give no more gifts, just a card and be on your merry way doing fun things without them. Next year I am going to take myself to the beach, to the city, to the cool mall, to the zoo, to the aquarium, to the holiday music and light performances, and if they don't want to go I will no longer wait for them but go alone. And I am no longer buying any more gifts -- they have enough now. And if I have fun without them, I might miss them a little. But hey, from now on go to the street festival downtown and the tree lighting next year and the candle memorial and if you go by yourself, so what? Then when they complain about their bitter lives you talk about the candle memorial and the holiday lights and let them gripe and be miserable all by their little lonesomes. But go out this evening to the local chain restaurant and even for the price of an a-la-carte salad mention it is your birthday and everybody forgot about it and have them celebrate for you!
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • My mom is 52.she is very YOUNG,right? What's wrong with some people considering a 52year old woman to be OLD?

    I am a 19 year old girl and I think 52 is YOUNG.people are just idiots
    I am a 19 year old girl and I think 52 is YOUNG.people are just idiots
    13 answers · 3 days ago