• If your friend paid for your boob job, would you be ok if he then asked to see the results?

    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under... show more
    So I’m 30 and male and my friend is female and is 27. We’ve been friends for over 10 years now and we’re very close. Unfortunately we live about 3 hours from each other now and one day when I was in town, my friend told me how she really wanted bigger breast. I told her I’d buy her a boob job for her birthday under the condition that I get to see them. This is not me trying to be perverted. This is me making sure she uses the money for what she says she’s using it for and the only way for me to ensure that is to be there when it happens. She’s agreed to my terms but what do you guys think? If you were a female and your male friend offered to pay for your boob job, would you be ok in letting him see the results?
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Does friends with benefits really work?

    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it.... show more
    I told this guy I really like him as a friend and that I didn't want to ruin our friendship with sex. And this is what he said but people always say sex ruins friendships. Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it. Him:Sex will only ruin it if you want something more that I'm not willing to give. Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed. That's what I do. **I was the one who mentioned sex to him. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He never said anything to me about sex until I asked him. Before I ever asked him about having sex he had asked me to hangout.**
    9 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Is this bad or am i just sensitive?

    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class... show more
    okay so I'm in a group of 3 friends and one of them is really popular and we get along really well until the other one keeps trying too hard to be her friend so it pushes me out. I try and talk to them but the other one just clings onto the popular one so I can't get a word in. every time we are in class they are laughing away and I'm just sat there with no one to talk to. And they don't even notice that I'm upset. I feel like they don't care about me at all. Am I just being sensitive?
    11 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Do i have the right to be mad?

    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to... show more
    basically I was having a small argument with this girl. let's call her A. A told my best friend O about the argument from her point of view. O texted me about it so I told O all about what had happened and um my thoughts towards A. O (my 'best friend'!!) then decided to take screenshots and sent them to A!! which got me into a lot of stuff with my friendship group because A sent the screenshots of what I said to everyone!! do I have the right to be mad at O???
    10 answers · 4 hours ago
  • Friend constantly tells me I am not invited to her wedding. Proper etiquette?

    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding... show more
    A girl I went to highschool with is getting married early next year.She has always been "out there" and invited herself to my 2nd wedding a decade ago and appointed herself bridesmaid without being asked. I was polite and allowed it since nobody else would participate. She talks about her upcoming wedding a lot and always says "you are not being invited just putting that out there" or she will mention where she is registered for gifts and when I mention what all do you need she says "dont buy me anything, its not like you are being invited anyway we don't have the space we are having 150 people". I understand she has free will and she can do as she pleases regarding her wedding. But I can't help but feel she is being a childish brat by constantly saying this. My relative told me this is not a true friend and at being in our mid 30s this is asinine behavior and to cut off the friendship stat. What should I do?
    10 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Was this sexual harassment?

    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the... show more
    My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said “I like to try new positions”. With a big smile on his face, he said “If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the spot”. I told him “If something comes up, let me know”. We both had a good laugh. In the employee break room I told some of my female co workers about this and they told me that was sexual harassment. What do you think? Was that sexual harassment? If it was, who was harassing who? He did not say anything about sex.
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can a 16 year old and a 19 be FRIENDS?

    I have a friend who is in the same fandom as me and that's how we met. We are only friends but should we not talk anymore since there's an age gap? When I'm 20 she'll be 17 . We are both girls btw we became friends because we have loads in common thanks
    I have a friend who is in the same fandom as me and that's how we met. We are only friends but should we not talk anymore since there's an age gap? When I'm 20 she'll be 17 . We are both girls btw we became friends because we have loads in common thanks
    10 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Is my friend overreacting?

    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on... show more
    So last Saturday while on my way to my friend's wedding, i got into a bad car accident that required hospitalization. Since I was being treated all day I couldn't call her personally to tell her what happened I had my mom do it. She got mad because according to her she wasted an entire meal's worth on me. She is also demanding i pay her for the meal. Is she right in doing this or is it a slight overreaction
    24 answers · 4 days ago
  • What should I do? Should I make a move?

    Best answer: I definitely think she likes you or she wouldn't be so touchy feely with you and that is a subtle, non verbal way of flirting. She knows your bi and that's a good thing, so ask her to hang out and don't be afraid to make the first move.
    Best answer: I definitely think she likes you or she wouldn't be so touchy feely with you and that is a subtle, non verbal way of flirting. She knows your bi and that's a good thing, so ask her to hang out and don't be afraid to make the first move.
    10 answers · 5 days ago
  • Am I fearful for my job for no reason?

    I have worked at a company for 7 years. The last 3 years for a terrible boss. He hit on all the female employees married or not. He often made us work through our lunch hour. We had a big party to celebrate his leaving (after he left). Everyone was happy to get a new boss. However my happiness turned to tears... show more
    I have worked at a company for 7 years. The last 3 years for a terrible boss. He hit on all the female employees married or not. He often made us work through our lunch hour. We had a big party to celebrate his leaving (after he left). Everyone was happy to get a new boss. However my happiness turned to tears when I found out who the new boss was. It was a guy who had asked me for dates in high school and I turned him down every time. I just knew he would fire me to get back for turning him down for dates. For the first month I worked for him, I lived in fear every day that he would fire me. However he never said a word about us going to high school together. It appeared he did not remember me and what I did to him. Perhaps because I am using my married name now. My close friend Jill thinks he is just a nice guy that remembers but does not want to embarrass me by saying anything about our past. Everyone thinks and I agree he is a great boss. He is giving us all training so we can get a raise and promotion. For those of us that have kids, he will cover for us when we have to go to a school event or when we have doctor’s appointment for our kids. My coworkers just adore him as their boss. I still have the fear that one day he will remember me and fire me. Am I fearful for no reason? Should I mention our past to him or just forget it and move on?
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Define a true friend?

    Best answer: Someone who never talks behind my back. Someone who isn’t money hungry and don’t say “you have to pay me back” everytime. Like say you guys just buy for eachother. Someone who makes plans with you cause they wanna be with you. Someone who you can always go to cause you feel comfortable and someone who truly has... show more
    Best answer: Someone who never talks behind my back. Someone who isn’t money hungry and don’t say “you have to pay me back” everytime. Like say you guys just buy for eachother. Someone who makes plans with you cause they wanna be with you. Someone who you can always go to cause you feel comfortable and someone who truly has your back no matter what
    7 answers · 4 days ago
  • What to say when they ask: "why dont you want to hang out with me?" ?

    What to say when they ask: "why dont you want to hang out with me?" ?

    Best answer: Exactly that .. I just don't feel a connection with you. If she persists, respond, "I don't know why. I just don't." Everyone understands this on SOME level, and it is not an arguable fact. Of course, the more insecure someone is, the more they take it personally, but YOU have no control... show more
    Best answer: Exactly that .. I just don't feel a connection with you.
    If she persists, respond, "I don't know why. I just don't."

    Everyone understands this on SOME level, and it is not an arguable fact.
    Of course, the more insecure someone is, the more they take it personally, but YOU have no control over that.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm going to be roommates with someone until I can hold my own and get an apartment or something. Any tips on how to be a good roommate?

    I keep hearing people stories how irritating a roommate can be. I don't want to be categorized as that.
    I keep hearing people stories how irritating a roommate can be. I don't want to be categorized as that.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I a bad friend?

    Best answer: It's natural to feel like you do. But just remember. You're friends. You will always have that friendship. But you have to expect her to have a little less time since she's with a guy now. Try to be understanding about I and be happy for her. Your time will come too. :)
    Best answer: It's natural to feel like you do. But just remember. You're friends. You will always have that friendship. But you have to expect her to have a little less time since she's with a guy now. Try to be understanding about I and be happy for her. Your time will come too. :)
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • People who have superiority complex and how to deal with them?

    I know this girl who is defo obsessed with herself too much and treats other people like they are less important, talks about herself in every conversation she has with anyone (and when you try to talk about yourself she’ll do this thing where she says “-anyways...”) then starts talking about herself again haha.... show more
    I know this girl who is defo obsessed with herself too much and treats other people like they are less important, talks about herself in every conversation she has with anyone (and when you try to talk about yourself she’ll do this thing where she says “-anyways...”) then starts talking about herself again haha. It’s so frustrating to be around someone who is constantly so self obsessed! It’s normal to talk about yourself but she does it too much and tries to show you how disinterested she is in what you have to say. Not only that, she’s very rude about other people, and although she suffers from a lot issues too, she likes to put other people down for their problems and she has 0 empathy for anyone but herself. She is friendly but it’s veey fake and only because she can later say that’s she’s “nice” to everyone lol. She complains a lot when people are mean to her and says “I’m nice to everybody why would they be mean to me” but she isn’t nice she’s so difficult to be around! She makes people around her feel unimportant and I want to know how to deal with her!
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can you come live with me at my parent’s house we have an extra room?

    Best answer: Can we all come?
    Best answer: Can we all come?
    24 answers · 7 days ago