Mature out lesbian atheist in midwest hoping to answer a serious question that will have a positive impact on someone's life. I try to help all young people just coming out. If I can save one young person from doing something stupid out of fear or shame, then all my time on the internet will be worthwhile. I am very involved with PFLAG -so I am really serious. The stupid questions, the vulgar comments, and the poor grammar still depress me because it shows the level of education in our society. To other mature free thinking lesbians, I'd love to correspond with others who appreciate a little quality and common sense in their lives.