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  • How can you cope with a girlfriend that thinks you’re cheating on them all the time?

    My gf thinks I’m cheating all the time. We live in our own places. We don’t own these places. I live with My mother and grandma in a house. She lives At her dads. We got kicked from our apt. My name is messed up and so is hers for apt. 

    True Things that happen

    1. My grandma turned a room and restroom into a mini apt. It’s completely sealed off. A girl tenant moves in and my gf thinks I’m already cheating on her with tenant. Not even 1 day after she moved in too. About 1 year passed and she still thinks I’m cheating with her. Never even went to her place or even talk to her. 

    2. A fake girl adds me on SC, and says “hi handsome” etc.. turned out it was one of those girls that do live cams and my gf thought I knew her just cuz the girl actually did reply back to her text when my gf questioned her on my Snapchat. This was in Vegas. Messed up hours of our trip. When this girl added me I told my gf immediately.

    3. About 5 nights ago a girl adds me on Facebook, you know those girls that look like models which are fake accounts? I didn’t bother to confirm. Next thing you know my girl texts me and says “why did you follow her?” Like how can I follow someone who isn’t my friend? There was no follow option on that person either. 

    4. Thought I messed with her best friend. 

    5. Thought I messed with one of the apt manager ladies

    6. Thought I messed with a big fat fat girl who worked with me.

    My girl look like a model. Don’t need any other. She’s too pretty to be insecure.

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 month ago
  • Guys what would you think if your girl posted another man on her Snapchat?

    Okay, if you’re a guy and let’s your girl have sex with guys for money, what would you do if she posted on Snapchat her kissing down the guys neck for a post and posting his chest tattoos? My girl did that, but, it was a guy she knew before a long time ago, they never had sex till he paid her . And it was her mother’s ex boyfriend. I complained about it and she was like big deal you knew we snapped together. I got mad at her because they were taking too long. About 1 hour. But for 200. She said big deal, and said I’m just coming up with an excuse to be mad and not talk to her to do whatever I want to do and to never talk to her again. But we still talking. I gave her a hard time previously. She always gives me a hard time and thinks I cheat. She has the obsessive love disorder to where she always thinks I’m unfaithful. Even though she watches me sleep and be on video call with me for hours. Did I overreact ?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Why does my girlfriend always think I’m cheating and how do I make her believe me?

    The other night not even after 10 mins after some girl adds me on Facebook she then asks me why did I follow her? I showed her the notification to where it still says “confirm” or “remove”. I didn’t follow her either. Then previous to that asks me why this other girl is following me. I said idk. I don’t have control over who follows me. Anyway she always thinks I’m cheating. We don’t live together. The owner of the house I live in rents to some girl on the other half of the house. It’s completely sealed off too. Not even 1 day after she moves in my girlfriend already thought I was cheating with her. My girlfriend sometimes makes mistakes and thinks I cheat so she goes and cheats and makes that mistake, but she tells me. And always says “I always tell you everything I do, but you never do!” Just because I don’t tell her doesn’t mean I’m cheating. I do tell her what I do except that part because I don’t cheat on her. Since 2018 she’s been always on this cheating crap. She Has made a lot of mistakes but I forgive. There’s a lot of other  incidents, some didn’t make any sense. Ex: Dropped calls due to signal she thinks I’m doing something I’m hiding. Watches me during sleep on video call she sometimes claims someone was with me and saw. 1. How can I play mind games to turn this around on her? 2. And how can I make her believe me because she never does.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
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    Why does my girlfriend think I always cheat?

    It's crazy. For 4 years she's been thinking I always cheat on her. She always tells me when she does a mistake and cheats on me with another. Whenever she gets intoxicated I distance myself from her. She always goes on my phone and goes on my snapchat and questions whos that girl and all. Then she gets on her snapchat and questions them. She goes at them verbally aggressive and I guess the girls get mad and tell her they are talking to me but show no proof at all. She once thought a state farm number was some girl I talked to. The other night she was accusing me of two girls. went on for two days. I blocked her from my phone, at same time I would text her and it's just argue all day bout same thing. She combines xanax with alcohol so this explains why she's all day like this. In the morning time of the 3rd day she did something unbelievable. she goes on my Facebook and posts a video of me giving her oral and a video of her having sex with the drug dealer doggy style on couch. She then calls me and says "why did you post that?" I immediately changed my password. I then tell her oh so you doing him and she says she just dry humping. No penetration. I tried to avoid her all night and next day calls me and says she had sex with him for reals since I didnt believe her. She got mad and did it on purpose. We argue as you can see from the photos I attached. She says if I find someone else she will kill me. She loves me to the death. But why can she do these things and say I cant? 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 months ago
  • Why is my girlfriend saying that I finessed her?

    So before anything, I owed my gf 50$, so I withdrew that during work. During my shift her friend that sells marijuana asked me for a uber ride. The ride was 11.00. I did not tell my GF about this. 25 mins later she texts me saying if I can get 60 in marijuana from him and she will pay me the 10$ in difference when I get home. I said okay, I will just add the 10 that he owes me to make it a 60 and she can just give me 10$ when I get home. She said no, just get 60 worth and have him give me the 11 in cash. But I didnt do that, he offered to just deduct what he owes to what I would get from him which is 60 in Marijuana. I didnt mention that to her. So I went with the original plan and just had him add 10 more to make it a 60 for her. I didnt think it was a problem, at the same time she was telling me to snap her him giving me the cash when I get the marijuana. I didnt do that either. I didnt think it would be a problem with me just having him add the 10 more dollars in marijuana in the sack instead of giving me the cash since she would give me the cash. When I come home and tell her about it she said that I finessed her and that she will not give me the 10$ she told me she was gonna give me, she also said she didn't know I gave him an uber ride and shouldve told her instead of making her think it was from a previous ride I gave him. I mean, how did I finesse her if she got 60 worth of it? She only paid 50 for that 60. So that means she still owes me the 10. Am I wrong or right?

    3 AnswersLaw & Ethics8 months ago
  • My girlfriend think I cheated her on a  Transaction  Who is wrong ?

    So before anything, I owed my gf 50$, so I withdrew that during work. During my shift her friend that sells marijuana asked me for a uber ride. The ride was 11.00. I did not tell my GF about this. 25 mins later she texts me saying if I can get 60 in marijuana from him and she will pay me the 10$ when I get home. I said okay, I will just add the 10 that he owes me to make it a 60 and she can just give me 10$ when I get home as the difference. She said no, just get 60 worth and have him give me the 11 in cash. But I didnt do that since he was only able to pay me in marijuana and not cash. I didnt mention that to her. So I went with the original plan and just had him add 10 more to make it a 60 for her. I didnt think it was a problem. When I come home and tell her about it she said that I finessed her and that she will not give me the 10$ she told me she was gonna give me, she also said she didn't know I gave him an uber ride and shouldve told her instead of making her think it was from a previous ride I gave him. I mean, how did I finesse her if she got 60 worth of it? She only paid 50 for that 60. So that means she still owes me the 10. Am I wrong or right?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 months ago
  • What other websites are there to sell on similar to Ebay?

    I already know Amazon. But are there any other ones like Ebay to where they accept PayPal or directly pay to your bank account? I tried offer up. But it s nothing like Ebay.

    1 AnswerCorporations11 months ago
  • Does what my girlfriend tells me is she being disrespectful?

    I cant c u m sometimes because I have a problem. Sometimes I have to wait like a week without masturbating to be able to c u m. She doesnt like that. But she says this "well "the man's name" always c u m when he has sex with me" some guy I really hate whom she used to have sexual encounters with. Is that being disrespectful? She also knows I have that problem where I cant because I used to masterbate so much when single.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • Is there a way to recieve Shipping discounts for selling on ebay?

    I'm a seller on Ebay. I just use USPS to ship items. Isnt there like an account you can create with any service and recieve larger discounts since I send packages everyday? Or does that not exist? It's because of the shipping that us sellers do not maximize our profits.

    3 AnswersCorporations12 months ago
  • Why cant I orgasm after I already did?

    I am a Male. I Wanna see if anyone else experienced this problem and if theres a way to reverse it. In my whole lifetime I've been masturbating. I am 35 years old now. I would day I've done it over 10,000 times In my entire life. I can masturbate and reach orgasm just fine. But when I do it with my girlfriend I cannot reach orgasm unless I dont masturbate for 1 or 2 weeks. But after I orgasm, I cannot orgasm again. I guess I'll have to wait. We had sex like 9 times in 2 nights, I waited about 3 weeks without masturbating , I only came 1 time. I couldve came the other 8, but I couldnt. Is there anyway to fix this?

    2 AnswersMen's Health12 months ago
  • Would you get made if your girlfriend cheated on you?

    If she was already with her man and you know about it and shes dating you at the same time but cheats on you with someone else other then her main guy and yourself. Would you get angry or not?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • How do I find apartments that actually accept evictions?

    I only have 1 eviction due to my girlfriend going berserk breaking the window and bleeding all over the floor inside and out of the apt just to get inside the apartment. She couldnt wait till I got home. She lost the key. I told her not to. Plus previous problems they had with noise complaints. All the places I wanted to move to didnt accept me cause of this. How can I find places? I live in Glendale arizona

    7 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 year ago
  • Why does my girlfriend always think I'm cheating?

    It's quite weird. I've been accused of so many, even made up girls and my previous ex and her best friend. The only thing I've ever done was had oral sex with a girl and that was when me and my girlfriend were split up, broken up for about a month and she found out by logging in my Facebook and got real upset over it. I just had a spontaneous experience. Her on the other hand has cheated on me plenty of times. I know cause she tells me. I still live in fear of her cheating. I know the guys too. Even she admitted to cheating because one night I was at work and she wanted me to leave my current duties and have sex with her and I said I couldnt cause I have alot of work to do, and she just calls that same guy and has him to have sex with her. 1 time she had sex with him cause she got mad at me over a stupid thing and she got snatched by him right in front of me. But she over here accusing me of always cheating on her. I dont get it. I am in so much fear she might have sex with that other guy she calls and I'm afraid of getting so tired of this that I'm to the point obsessing over just taking matters upon myself to hurt this guy. Alot of this happens when she is drunk and out her mind. AMD I fear if she keeps thinking I cheat that she will cheat out of thinking I do!

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Is it disrespectful to tell your partner you can find anybody you want?

    I take that as an insult everytime my gf argues with me. She just says that. But if I say it, it hurts her 10 times more. And I only say it to give her a taste of her own medicine. She just says ok go do it then.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Help me, who is wrong in this relationship?

    Keep in mind that I am with a taken woman. She risks what she has to be with me. Her man is basically her supporter and proivides all. I was first with her not knowing she had another man. I fell in love and cant get out, cant live together cuz financial and relationship issues.. My girlfriend would cheat and make that mistake for sexual desire but she always would tell me along with sending videos. She always tells me who messages her. Today we got into arguments over just something I didnt tell her. It was a message from my Facebook to someone elses FB she sent while she was drunk. I told her 3 weeks later. She got mad and now tells me why I didnt tell her sooner. I used to tell her all the similar things she does on my phone immediately but then she would get very mad and say why I blame her and argument occurs. That's because she doesnt remember, Of course. She takes alcohol and drugs when doing this, she does this to check to see if I'm cheating or talking to some other girl and all the time nothing came up. Now she thinks I hide stuff and dont ever tell her just cuz of this. I just didnt wanna hear her bad attitude saying why I blame her for it... also shes the type that thinks that if you cheat and just tell your partner it's better then hiding it. But I think whether u hide it or not is wrong. But you still cant justify it being right if you tell your partner too and keep doing it. I've forgiven her for doing that many times in 3 years, I've never cheated on her

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Help, who is really wrong in this relationship?

    My girlfriend would cheat on me and make that mistake but she always would tell me along with sending videos of the evidence. She always tells me who messages her and all. Today we got into arguments over just something I didnt tell her. It was a message from my Facebook to someone elses Facebook that she sent while she was drunk. I told her 3 weeks later. She got mad and now tells me why I didnt tell her sooner. I used to tell her all the similar stuff she used to do on my phone right away but then she would get mad and say why I blame her and that she never did it. That's because she doesnt remember. She takes alcohol and drugs when doing this. Of course she wouldnt. And she only does this to check to see if I'm cheating or talking to some other girl and all the time nothing came up that I been cheating. Now she thinks I hide stuff and dont ever tell her and hide it just cuz of this. I just didnt wanna hear her bad attitude saying why I blame.her for it... also shes the type that thinks that if you cheat and just tell your partner it's better then hiding it. But I think whether u hide it or not is wrong. But you still cant justify it being right if you tell your partner too and keep doing it. I've forgiven her for doing that many times in 3 years, But she has to raise hell for this? I've never ever cheated on her.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • I barely got a black ink tattoo. Will it turn green over time?

    I see most people with green tattoos. Is my black one gonna turn green over time? In google it said that India ink isn't used anymore. They said that India ink is the one that turns green over time.

    5 AnswersTattoos2 years ago
  • How do I shrink love handles?

    Im a Male. I'm having a very very hard time with shrinking them. I am about 5 foot 6 and 3/4. Weight 141.2 Lb . 32.75 inch waist from love handle to love handle. I do weight training 2 times a week. Squats, bench, curls and some ab work where you shoot your knees up. My diet isnt so great. I have to eat out all the time cause I work driving all night. I thought too much sugar was what was keeping them. But I reduced in the amount of soda I drink big time and still have love handles. Someone said to do wood chops. Idk if that's really working out. I need to get rid of these hideous handles

    2 AnswersDiet & Fitness2 years ago
  • How come i cant orgasm?

    I'm a Male. Aged 33. I been masturbating all my life. If I can guess a count of how many times it would be maybe 12,000 since high school and can orgasm. I have sex with my girlfriend and cant orgasm. But here's the weird part.. if I wait a week or so without masturbating I can orgasm during intercourse with her. It shoots far too. If I masturbate alot the sperm just pumps out when I orgasm. How do I fix this?

    3 AnswersMental Health2 years ago