Should I change my ways to get a relationship?

Question

Hi,
My name is Eric. I was born in Montreal and lived there for 17 years. Now, I'm 19 and live in the U.S. I find myself having trouble with having a relationship with a girl (or any girl).

I am quite a metro-sexual. I love fashion and like looking good in public. I think that I have a bright personality once I'm comfortable. I am a vegetarian(not a vegan). I work in a hotel 3 nights a week, teach children from 4 to 7 years old the basics of boxing on saturday mornings, and volunteer at an animal hospital 1 to 4 times a week( love my time there). I am a freshman in college. I speak French, English and Spanish fluently, and I know how to read Greek ( although, I don't understand what I'm reading LMAO!!) but I am working on learning it perfectly with my aunt and grandmother who both speak 8 languages.

My goal is to become a veterinarian. I box 1 to 4 times a week ( so my body type is athletic, not super muscular) I am shy around new people, but once someone speaks to me, I open myself to a new friendship. I have quite a butt. Sometimes, it is envied by women LOL. I have dark-brown hair (semi-curly), dark-brown eyes, a olive-like skin tone. I'm 5 feet and barely 9 inches tall. I weigh from 158 to 165 pounds (depends on my training week).
(GET TO THE BLOODY POINT MAN!!!) :P

I've been told that I was good looking many times since I became a metro-sexual (17yo). I have never had a Girlfriend; I have had 1day full of REAL kisses (all of them french, while I was teaching french to a colombian friend)( at the end of my 17years). I seem to be thought of a ''homosexual'' in this particular society because of the way I dress. I have been ''hit on'' by homosexuals before too. Did'nt mind. I thought it was nice to be complimented by ''connaisseurs'' of good looking people. I DO refuse to wear over-sized pants under my **** and over-sized shirts ,and to put a grin on my face to look tough to look ''straight''(according to ,for what I know, New Englands view of fashion). I know what I want in a woman, and I know how to choose my friends. I have aquiered the respect of the people who have taken the chance to get to know me for who I am and not exactly for what I look like.

Why am I having such a hard time with people ,in general, here? Why am I having trouble having a girlfriend? Is it the kind of people that live here or is it me ( not my exterior) but me...the real me? Should I go away? Back to where I came from or to Europe?

Answer 1

i think ur problem is you talk too too much

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Answer 2

No there is nothing wrong with you. You sound amazing and I'm sure any girl I know would be interested in you. Some girls may be put off with how you dress but you shouldn't have to change that or anything else about you for someone. Give it time and you will fine someone interested in you. Your only 19 hun give it time.

Bella

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